Gaslighting

 

: psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one's emotional or mental stability, and a dependency on the perpetrator

Gaslighting can be a very effective tool for the abuser to control an individual. It's done slowly so the victim writes off the event as a one off or oddity and doesn't realize they are being controlled and manipulated. the act or practice of grossly misleading someone especially for one's own advantage

Newest Member To Our Family

 

A female Pom!  A cousin to Sable, who was

a Peek a Pom with the same coloring.  She is

a fast learner and after a vet check up we will

start training her to be my service dog.  She is

already checking up on me all the time so she

is pretty smart.

Her name is Onyx Star.

4/10/2025

Happy Birthday Onyx, 5 months 

old and doing well with training!

I got her a new harness and collar,

since she chewed up the other one.

1/6-7/2025 Sable

 We lost our little girl, Sable passed away.  

We had her for over 13 1/2 years.  She 

brought joy to all that stopped to get 

to know her!  She was with me all the

time, I called her my shadow.

Our Blog Was to Going Private 2/14/2025!

But several folks have asked that I

don't make my site private.  Give 

me a few days to decide what our 

next step will be.

Been dealing with the winter storm

that we just had.

As you can see all the posts have

returned and we aren't going to 

go private as it caused some issues

with Bing.

2025 / AA / January -- 775

1/1/2025  -----   77,901

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1/2/2024  ---   77,907

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1/3/2025   ----   77,920

60  ----   7:00  pm

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1/4/2025  ------   77,929   

90   ----   11:51 pm

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1/5/2025   ---    77,932

110   -----    10:56 pm

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1/6/2025  -------  77,935

134     ----   11:56 pm

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1/7/2025    -----  77,939

156    -----    11:44 pm

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1/8/2025   -----    77,943 

180   ------    11:49 pm

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1/9/2025  ----   77,946

200   ---  11:10 pm

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1/10/2025  ----   77,954

221    ----    11:47 pm

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1/11/2025  ---   77,964

243   ---    11:47  pm

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1/12/2025   ----   77,972

265        ----      10:59 pm

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1/13/2025   ----    77,973

298   ----    10:59 pm

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1/14/2025   ----   77,981

319    -----    11:00 pm

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1/15/2025   -----  78,008

339   ----      9:50 pm

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1/16/2025 ----  78,035

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1/17/2025   ---  78,070

382    -----    10:31 pm

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406  ---   11:50 pm

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435   ----  9:58 pm

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505   -----   11:59 pm

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533    -----    11:59 pm

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1/23/2025   ----   78,147

563   ----     10:47 pm

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1/24/2025    ----    78,153

591   -----    11:25 pm

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656    ------    11:53 pm

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691   ----    11:50 pm

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720   -----      11:10 pm

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746   -------    11:39 pm

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1/31/2025   -----   78,188

775  ----    11:19 pm

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2025 -- January / Yard Cleanup

2024 -- December AA / 691

 12/1/2024  ---  77,584

24   -----    11:03 pm

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94    -----     11:35 pm

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110   -----    11:46  pm

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12/6/2024  ------  77,630

132   ------   11:28 pm

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12/7/2024 ---  77,649

153  ---  11:30 pm

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12/8/2024  -----   77,660

175   ---    11:05 pm

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12/9/2024  ----   77,676

198   ----   11:52 pm

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218   ------     10:07 pm

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239  -------  10:50 am

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261      ----    10:58 pm

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282   -----   10:40 pm

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306   -----      11:23 pm

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328    ------     10:22 pm

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352  ------   7:30 pm

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415   -----    107:30 pm

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575   -----     7:45 pm

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595  -----     9:21 pm

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12/28/2024   ----   77,857

621   ----    10:060  pm

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12/29/2024   ---     77,862

646    -----     11:30 pm

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12/30/2024  ------   77,878

668   -------     11:24 pm

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12/31/2024   ---   77,882

691   -----    8:00 pm

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